Categories: FEATUREDRELATIONSHIP

What to wear on a First date and why the dress code matters

A simple dress code is perfect for a first date.

For most of us, getting dressed for a date especially if it’s a first date, or even a second or a third one is pretty tempting. You think of putting on an outfit that would say everything you want it to communicate and leave out what you don’t.

A decent shirt, skin make up, an attractive dress or a nice pair of shoes all seem like obvious decisions, but do they really matter? Will the dress code really affect how your date views your perceptions if you are dressed or not dressed in a certain way?  What to wear on a first date actually matters a lot more than any of us probably thinks.

 If you are still in a fix, here are some tips on how and why the dress code matters on a first date. The perfect date outfit definitely does not involve the shortest skirt in your closet. Ladies should avoid the supershort dresses and plunging necklines. This will make you feel overexposed or uncomfortable and you won’t feel confident.

Stick to your style; If the date is casual, a white shirt, with the top buttons open, under a bomber jacket that hits right at your butt can be girdled up with red lipstick. it’s a look that is no-fuss hot. You can also go for a pencil skirt with a liquid-silk blouse.The fabric clings beautifully on the bust but drapes systematically elsewhere. Then match it with some simple stiletto heels. Trust me, you will look elegant in this outfit than you least expect.

Display only what matters strategically. Try a strapless or spaghetti-strap top that shows off your shoulders, paired with black pants. Or a fitted turtleneck dress with long sleeves; it leaves something to the imagination while highlighting your silhouette.”

Keep your jewelry minimal. Dainty earrings with a tiny diamond are so feminine. Delicate layered chains or a very thin choker, which is suggestive without being obvious is perfect too.

Avoid looking too vampy or flirtatious on a first date. You don’t really know each other well romantically yet and being suggestive or provocative on a first date is a definite no-no. Worst still, looking too vampy can cause your date to relegate you to the one-night date rather than treating you as a serious long-term prospect.

There will be plenty more time to see more of you as the dates progress, and if the date doesn’t work out, well then, he didn’t deserve to see anything more! The are some clothing to avoid on a first date;

  • Anything too low cut, low slung. If you wear a low-cut top, don’t pair it with a short skirt, or vice versa. One slightly suggestive item of clothing is more than sufficient; don’t ruin it by making an overall statement.
  • Your butt sticking out of your jeans. He doesn’t need to see your underwear yet, in any shape or form.
  • A tummy roll over your jeans. Unpleasant and unlikely to garner further interest no matter how much you think it’s your right to dress this way. Save it for non-date occasions.
  • Short, figure-hugging clothing. The shorter it is, the less appropriate it is for a first date.
  • Lace-up tops, bodices that evict your bust, anything see-through.
With simplicity, you can be able to express yourself freely while on a date.

Keep your hair as simple as possible in the way you usually do. It’s fine to try to make it look nicer as long as it doesn’t give your date a wrong impression of who you are or smell like a firebomb of hairspray. For the first date keep it simple and real, same thing goes for your make-up.

Elaborate hairstyles that cause you pain during the date will have your mind focused on overcoming the pain rather than on your date. Forget anything that twists and pulls your hair in strange new ways and wear your hair in a way that you know feels good.

Also Read: Don’t let Valentine’s Day break your heart or your pocket
Philimon Badagawa.

Philimon Badagawa is a multimedia journalist with skills in news gathering, packaging, editing and online publishing. He has knowledge in data visualization, can design and manage websites. He previously worked as a journalist with Observer media and authored several articles and stories. He does research, video & audio recording, editing and production for online publication. He Participated in The New Dawn photography campaign aimed at rebranding Northern Uganda-USAID/NUTI Project (2010). Philimon is in love with photography, writing, reading, sharing new ideas and interacting with reasonable people for skills development. He was recognized for excelling in Journalism during the Uganda Journalism Awards by ACME in 2015. (philebadagawa@gmail.com, +256 774 607 886)

View Comments

Recent Posts

Uganda Launches TVET Reforms to Boost Employment

The Ugandan government has introduced reforms in the Technical and Vocational Education and Training (TVET)…

2 weeks ago

Mbarara University Holds 31st Graduation, Welcomes New Vice Chancellor

Mbarara University of Science and Technology (MUST) held its 31st graduation ceremony on 19th October…

2 weeks ago

Love Languages Unpacked: How to Communicate Love in Ways That Truly Resonate

Discover the five love languages and learn how to communicate love effectively in your relationships.…

2 weeks ago

Uganda, India Discuss Operationalisation of National Forensic Sciences University in Jinja

The Chief of Defence Forces (CDF), Gen. Muhoozi Kainerugaba, met with Indian High Commissioner to…

3 weeks ago

Ndejje University Graduates 1,067 at 26th Ceremony, Urged to Be Innovators

Ndejje University held its 26th graduation ceremony on October 11, 2024, at the main campus…

3 weeks ago

Makerere Launches ‘Safer Campuses Campaign’ to Combat Gender-Based Violence

Makerere University has launched the "Safer Campuses Campaign," a multi-university initiative aimed at tackling Gender-Based…

3 weeks ago

This website uses cookies.