The time they have long been waiting for has come. For their partners to finish campus and start staying together. However, they can not fight the fear of losing them.
It is late January and in Uganda, the atmosphere is gay with graduation parties of Makerere University students in town and in the country.
Unfortunately, life is not the same on the boyfriends’ side. Many have begun to ‘freak out’. “She is gonna leave me for a fellow graduate or wealthy man”
The perspective that female degree graduates are not ‘marriage material’ has marred the entire Ugandan society which has made most men to distance themselves from educated women.
Basically, the perspective was backed-up by the female degree holders’ dishonesty and unfaithfulness when it comes to love relationships.
Additionally, graduates feel they are too advanced for some home chores like washing clothes and therefore will ‘chicken out’ on marriage issues.
A male proposing to fellow graduate: photo courtesy
But, my advise to young men is; you can do away with the misconception and make that sexy graduate the wife you will stay with for eternity.
Here is how.
Learn to Speak Her Language. The most convenient way of winning over somebody’s heart is to learn their mode of communication. You need to blend-in a little into her social life like swimming or even some bit of clubbing but not getting too pulled to forget your personality.
Fresh female graduates may in most case be proud but that does not change the fact that they also enjoy being loved and given special treatment. However play your cards right, commitment maybe far from their thoughts.
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